Closer III

Some thoughts about 'CLOSER"............

(1) "Intimacy is a lie we tell ourselves; Truth is the game we play to win"
When we fall into someone, we always want to be very intimate with him. Intimacy = Telling truth?
However, some "truth" should never be exposed bcos people can hardly accept it, e.g. betrayal. We would be in a situation that the more u know, the more ur away from initmacy. Anna & Alice tell the truth, Dan cant accept it so their relationship end. In a relationship, it's most likely that we have to sacrifice part of ourselves, so we always face 2 dilemmas : Stop doing things that possibly hurting ur lover / do the things u want even it will upset ur lover & u cover the fact with lies.

(2) By the way, being faithful is hard, as there are so many temptations around. You can reject the 1st doesnt mean that you can reject the 2nd, 3th, 4th....... Moreover, being faithful doesnt mean u wont get hurt. And what is faithful? Dan is faithful to his heart, he loves Alice & loves Anna, end up he's hurting both and bcom a loser. Alice is faithful to her heart, faithful to her relationship with Dan (In my point of view, not in love or having sex w/ other men while she's with Dan), she's getting hurt too.

(3) "You love me, but you bored with me" "Where's this love? I cant see it, I cant touch it, I cant feel it, I can hear it, I can hear some words. But i cant do anything with your easy words"
It's sad that love is difficult to last. Love & relationships can be separate things. May be ur maintaining ur relationship w/ ur bf, husband, but the love was gone after sometime.

I like movies talking about love & relations. Bcos i m involved and sometimes i will get lost & confused. I hope i could find anwsers in CLOSER. But they give me more questions and i still have to find the answers myself.